You’re a woman in tech who feels left behind. You want to navigate work culture with confidence, claim what you want, set boundaries against what you don’t want, and own your value.
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Don’t find yourself. Make and remake yourself. — Cindy Gross
You no longer feel like you’re in control of your own career. Now what?
It’s unfair. It hurts. It feels personal. Whether it’s a bully, a harasser, bias and inequities, or something you know is wrong but can’t quite name – you know your workplace isn’t working for you and you want a new path forward.
Cindy has a way of sifting through the noise of logistics and emotions, to get at the heart of an issue. She invests heavily in the experience, and success, of her clients — and her investment is obvious through the entire coaching experience. She is a powerful coach, and she has the ability to notContinue reading “dr. sarahlloyd, PhD | The Equity Whisperer”
Cindy leverages her lived experience and coaching expertise to help people better understand issues from the perspective of people whose lives are different from ours. I participated in an anti-racism group that Cindy ran in 2021, and I looked forward to the insightful and honest discussions in every session. The program opened my eyes inContinue reading “Julia Goldstein | Communication that Supports Businesses on their Sustainability Journeys”
I left a 25-year tech career to start Befriending Dragons when reporting harassment led me down a path of discovery, systems thinking, adaptive leadership, and community focus. I help you discover your own path forward to a successful, fulfilling career. Schedule a free consult to learn more about my 5-month VIP Uplevel Your Career program.
Cindy Gross
She/her | ex-techie SQLCindy
Delaware & Cherokee citizen
survivor of workplace bullies and harassers
We customize our 5-month VIP Uplevel Your Career program to your style, needs, & goals so you can:
Navigate Work Culture with Confidence
- Know what keeps you feeling confident
- Gain a well-rounded understanding of your strengths and opportunities
- Uncover how you want to show up during conflict and uncomfortable conversations
Claim What You Want for Your Career
- Remove roadblocks to requesting what you really need
- Plan how to align your work with your purpose, values, and goals
- Develop a circle of supporters so you’re not doing it all alone
Set Boundaries Against What You Don’t Want
- Learn ways to recognize when & how your boundaries, values, or purpose are not working for you
- Know how to identify & act on your non-negotiables
- Practice meaningful responses when someone makes you uncomfortable
Own Your Value and Raise Your Voice
- Have new ways to demonstrate your leadership to yourself and stakeholders
- Be persistent and clear about your own needs
- Listen differently to your inner critic so you believe in your power and self-worth
Program Features
- 10 private sessions to identify, shift, and transform your mindset and habits
- Online learning for your career, leadership of self, and DEI growth
- Quick check-in sessions for immediate needs
- Peer interactions to multiply learnings
- Client portal to track your insights and partner on accountability
You’re looking for someone who is direct, safe, empathetic, supportive, and focused. You’re in the right place. My clients say I have an “extraordinary impact” and “amazing insight,” create safety by being vulnerable and fully present, sift through noise to surface the gems, and infuse a race + gender equity perspective into my listening & questions.
Cindy’s Origin Story
After 25 years in corporate tech I was burned out. I couldn’t think. I couldn’t make decisions. I couldn’t cope with anything. So I took a lot of time off and slowly, so slowly, worked through the trauma of reporting harassment at work, of being involved in a pay inequity fight, of so much bias and so many white male shaped bars. I realized what was missing was connection, community, and values-based leadership. So I became that. The connector. The community nurturer. The coach who really gets systemic inequities and wants to lead with relationships. I befriended all those dragons, and now I help my clients THRIVE.
